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Funerals

“In the face of death, the church confidently proclaims that God has created each person for eternal life and that Jesus, the Son of God, by his death and resurrection, has broken the chains of sin and death that bound humanity.

At the death of a Christian, whose life of faith was begun in the waters of baptism and strengthened at the eucharistic table, the Church intercedes on behalf of the deceased because of its confident belief that death is not the end nor does it break the bonds forged in life. The Church also ministers to the sorrowing and consoles them in the funeral rites with the comforting work of God and the sacrament of the eucharist.”

From the Order of Christian Funerals 

 

We wish to extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

It is our honor and privilege to serve and support you in this difficult time of grief. 

Please reach out to the the parish office at [email protected] to begin the process of planning a funeral.

 

As You Prepare for a Catholic Funeral

The Funeral Guide (link below) will be helpful as you prepare for a Catholic funeral. The List of Funeral Readings will be helpful as you select readings for the funeral. 

Click here to open the complete Funeral Planning Guide.

Click here for the list of Funeral Readings.

+ Click here for the list of hymns available at Good Shepherd. (for the Preparation of the Altar or Communion, or an optional Recessional)

If you have not yet contacted a funeral home, please do so as soon as possible. Funeral directors are familiar with Catholic customs, guidelines, and requirements. Additionally, they will be helpful in coordinating meetings with the parish.

Music

Sacred music is a means by which we as members of the Church Militant join the angels and saints in their prayers for the deceased. During the funeral planning meeting, you will select the music to be used during the funeral. In addition to the hymns listed in the index above, the following solo pieces are also an option for the Preparation of the Altar and Holy Communion. 

Click on the links below to hear a sample.

Ave Maria – Johann Sebastian Bach/Charles Gounod
Ave Maria – Giulio Caccini
Ave Maria – Gregorian Chant
Ave Maria – Franz Schubert
Ave Maria – Louis Vierne
Panis Angelicus – César Franck
Pie Jesu – Lili Boulanger
Pie Jesu – Gabriel Fauré
Pie Jesu – Maurice Duruflé

Burial (Committal)

The Rite of Committal concludes the Rite of Christian Burial. Whenever possible, it is celebrated at the site of committal – at the open grave or place of interment. 

Cremation

"The Christian faithful, in the present of the body of one who has died, are confronted with the mystery of life and death. The body, even in death, calls to mind a personal story of faith, loving family bonds, friendships, caring words and deeds of kindness offered by the one who has died. This same body, washed in the waters of Baptism, anointed with Holy Oils and fed with Bread of Life is recognized by the Church as a Temple of the Holy Spirit, destined for resurrection and meant for glory. The Catholic Church urges that the body be present for funeral rites since this give better expression to the truths that the Church affirms" (Order of Christian Funerals).

Cremation is allowed in the Catholic faith, preferably after the Mass of Christian Burial in the church.

Whether the Mass of Christian Burial is chosen, or some other type of funeral service is preferred, the following regulations for Catholic disposition and burial of cremated remains are to be followed:

  • The proper respect given to the body of the deceased is likewise to be accorded to the cremated remains, both in handling and in final disposition of cremated remains.
  • Where cremation is chosen, cremated remains are to be placed in a mausoleum or columbarium or in ground that is blessed specifically to receive the body or cremated remains of the faithful.
  • It is the desire of the Catholic Church that utmost respect be accorded to both the bodies and cremated remains of the deceased. Thus the scatterings of ashes or the reserving of ashes privately on mantel shelves or even in lockets or other mementos is not in keeping with the respect owed to the cremated remains of loved ones. Dividing the cremated remains for multiple burial sites or other reasons is not the reverent disposition that the Church requires.