Funerals

Funerals at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Golden Valley, MN
As You Prepare for a Catholic Funeral

Our prayerful sympathies go out to you our parishioners; may your loved one rest in the Lord's peace.

As you prepare for a Catholic funeral, normally the Mass of Christian Burial, the information that follows will be helpful to you in making necessary choices. 

(Note: If you are thinking about cremation, please reference the section below on Cremation for guidelines.)

If you have not yet contacted our parish, your funeral home can help you. This should be done as soon as possible. The priest or deacon who will preside at the liturgy will want to visit with you prior to the liturgy. Funeral directors are familiar with Catholic customs, guidelines and requirements.

Wake and Visitation may be the night before, with or without a Prayer Service, at the funeral home. 

Visitation in the church, prior to the Mass of Christian Burial, may be at the place designated by each church, with the casket closed or open. At the conclusion or final moments of visitation, the clergy presiding at the liturgy may, with the family gathered, offer a short prayer. If cremated remains are present, the same applies.

Mass of Christian Burial follows.

As the Mass begins, the family may spread the pall over the casket. Family may be invited to participate in the selection of readings from the Bible to be used during Mass. One reading is normally taken from the Old testament and one from the New Testament. In addition, there is one Gospel reading. (There are some suggested readings from which it would be appropriate to select. The priest or deacon can help with this.) Catholic family members or friends may read the first and second readings. The Gospel is read by a deacon or the priest, followed by the homily.

It is appropriate for family members or friends to present the gifts of bread and wine to be used for Mass. In the Mass, through the words entrusted by Christ to His Church, these gifts become the Body and Blood of Christ, the source of our hope in resurrection.

Music for the ritual of Christian burialMusic, being an integral part of the Church's liturgical tradition, is a significant part of the ritual of Christian burial. Sacred music is a means by which we as members of the Church Militant, may join the angels and saints in their prayers for the deceased. In the process of planning the funeral, Fr. Luke Marquard, our Pastor, will guide you through this information. However, Mr. Cristiano Rizzotto, our Director of Music, is available to provide further assistance in planning the music.

We encourage our parishioners to consider the selections listed below. Although it may seem morbid to plan one's funeral many years in advance, it is tremendously beneficial to the bereaved if the deceased have left unambiguous instructions regarding their funeral liturgies.

Entrance Antiphon and Psalms

+Chanted Introit: Requiem Aeternam  (Score)
Psalm 84: Blessed are they who dwell in your house, O Lord.
  (Score)
Psalm 90: In every age, O Lord, you have been our refuge.  (Score)
Psalm 103: The Lord is kind and merciful.  (Score)
Psalm 118: This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad.  (Score)

or Opening Hymn

At The Lamb’s High Feast We Sing (Worship Hymnal 512)
Christ is Alive (Worship Hymnal 510)
Come, You Faithful, Raise the Strain (Worship Hymnal 509)
For All the Saints (Worship Hymnal 891)
God of Our Fathers (Worship Hymnal 995)
Holy God, We Praise Thy Name (Worship Hymnal 614)
O God, Our Help in Ages Past (Worship Hymnal 689)
Praise, My Soul, the King of Heaven (Worship Hymnal 610)
Sing with All the Saints in Glory (Worship Hymnal 526)
The Strife is O’er (Worship Hymnal 511)
Ye Watchers and Ye Holy Ones (Worship Hymnal 886)

Responsorial Psalm

Psalm 23: The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want.  (Score)
Psalm 27: The Lord is my light and my salvation.  (Score)
Psalm 84: Blessed are they who dwell in your house, O Lord.  (Score)
Psalm 90: In every age, O Lord, you have been our refuge.  (Score)
Psalm 103: The Lord is kind and merciful.  (Score)
Psalm 118: This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad.  (Score)

Preparation of the Altar and Gifts

+Domine, Jesu Christe (Chant)
Day is Done (Worship Hymnal 852)
I Heard the Voice of Jesus Say (Worship Hymnal 707)
I Know That My Redeemer Lives (Worship Hymnal 527)
Lord of All Hopefulness (Worship Hymnal 686)
Now Let Your Servant Go in Peace (Worship Hymnal 872)
The King of Love My Shepherd Is (Worship Hymnal 712)
What Wondrous Love Is This (Worship Hymnal 641)

Solos

Ave Maria – Johann Sebastian Bach/Charles Gounod
Ave Maria – Giulio Caccini
Ave Maria – Gregorian Chant
Ave Maria – Franz Schubert
Ave Maria – Louis Vierne
Panis Angelicus – César Franck
Pie Jesu – Lili Boulanger
Pie Jesu – Andrew Lloyd Weber
Pie Jesu – Gabriel Fauré
Pie Jesu – Maurice Duruflé

Communion Hymn

+Lux Aeterna (Chant)
Ave Verum (Worship Hymnal 929)
Creator of the Stars of Night (Worship Hymnal 405)
Draw Near and Take the Body of the Lord (Worship Hymnal 947)
Hidden Here Before Me (Worship Hymnal 556)
Jesus, Remember Me (Worship Hymnal 869)
Jesus, My Lord, My God, My All
Lord, Who at Your First Eucharist (Worship Hymnal 954)
Shepherd of Our Hearts
Shepherd of Souls (Worship Hymnal 941)
You Satisfy the Hungry Heart (Worship Hymnal 939)

Commendation

+In Paradisum (Chant)

Recessional Hymn

At The Lamb’s High Feast We Sing (Worship Hymnal 512)
Christ is Alive (Worship Hymnal 510)
Come, You Faithful, Raise the Strain (Worship Hymnal 509)
For All the Saints (Worship Hymnal 891)
God of Our Fathers (Worship Hymnal 995)
Holy God, We Praise Thy Name (Worship Hymnal 614)
I Know That My Redeemer Lives (Worship Hymnal 527)
Jesus Christ is Risen Today (Worship Hymnal 516)
Jesus Shall Reign (Worship Hymnal 569)
Mine Eyes Have Seen the Glory (Worship Hymnal 864)
Now Let Your Servant Go in Peace (Worship Hymnal 872)
O God Beyond All Praising (Worship Hymnal 627)
Praise, My Soul, the King of Heaven (Worship Hymnal 610)
Sing with All the Saints in Glory (Worship Hymnal 526)
The Strife is O’er (Worship Hymnal 511)
What Wondrous Love Is This (Worship Hymnal 641)
Ye Watchers and Ye Holy Ones (Worship Hymnal 886)

Eulogies are an option, but they are not required. If done in good taste, they can be appropriate at the wake and/or luncheon. The Mass of Christian Burial is time set aside to pray for the deceased and for family and friends to be consoled by the words of Christ, "whoever believes in me, though he should die, will come to life." (Jn. 11:26) If there is to be a eulogy, it should be only a few minutes in length and given by one person. The Catholic rite states that a short eulogy may be given following the prayer after Communion.

Lengthy and multiple eulogies, should take place outside the Mass of Christian Burial. These might be incorporated into the wake service or the luncheon program.

The Rite of Committal concludes the Rite of Christian Burial. Whenever possible, it is celebrated at the site of committal – at the open grave or place of interment. 

Cremation

"The Christian faithful, in the present of the body of one who has died, are confronted with the mystery of life and death. The body, even in death, calls to mind a personal story of faith, loving family bonds, friendships, caring words and deeds of kindness offered by the one who has died. This same body, washed in the waters of Baptism, anointed with Holy Oils and fed with Bread of Life is recognized by the Church as a Temple of the Holy Spirit, destined for resurrection and meant for glory. The Catholic Church urges that the body be present for funeral rites since this give better expression to the truths that the Church affirms."

- Order of Christian Funerals 

Cremation is allowed in the Catholic faith, preferably after the Mass of Christian Burial in the church.

Whether the Mass of Christian Burial is chosen, or some other type of funeral service is preferred, the following regulations for Catholic disposition and burial of cremated remains are to be strictly followed:

- The proper respect given to the body of the deceased is likewise to be accorded to the cremated remains, both in handling and in final disposition of cremated remains.

- Where cremation is chosen, cremated remains are to be placed in a mausoleum or columbarium or in ground that is blessed specifically to receive the body or cremated remains of the faithful.

It is the desire of the Catholic Church that utmost respect be accorded to both the bodies and cremated remains of the deceased. Thus the scatterings of ashes or the reserving of ashes privately on mantel shelves or even in lockets or other mementos is not in keeping with the respect owed to the cremated remains of loved ones. Dividing the cremated remains for multiple burial sites or other reasons is not the reverent disposition that the Church requires.

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Prayers for the Deceased

The Catholic Church teaches that all who die in God's grace and friendship, but still imperfectly purified, are indeed assured of their eternal salvation; but after death they undergo purification, so as to achieve the holiness necessary to enter the joy of heaven. Thus, family and friends are encouraged to remember their deceased loved ones in prayer. From the beginning the Church has honored the memory of the dead and offered prayers in suffrage for them, above all the Eucharistic Sacrifice of the Mass, so that, thus purified, they may attain the beatific vision of God.